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You might tend to think that online dating is similar to pointing and clicking. The truth is, online dating is much more than just clicking and meeting an individual who’s profile looks too good to be true.
Many women try online dating for a practical joke…they are not serious, when they try it out; the effort made is half measures at best. The key is to make a full fledged effort to succeed.
Another online blunder is thinking men will approach you is wrong. Your “Mr. Right” is not going to come out of thin air. You need to make an effort to contact the type of man that meets your ideal. Read profiles and narrow down candidates that fit your vision of the “right man”. Be bold and contact men – don’t wait like a wall flower.
Make sure to communicate well - writing one liner messages like, “see my profile” and think that people will contact you just doesn’t work. Write and attempt to bring out the writer/poet in you. Paint words into pictures that will capture the imagination of men and that will attract them want to meet you.
A great mistake is to send out “form letters” -- like direct mailers. This is an insult to any educated person’s intelligence. Personalize the mails—make it specific to the person you are writing to. Remember this is an attempt to find Mr. Right not an exercise in answering circulars. Ideally, letters should be conversations where one discovers each other through words.
Making maximal use of the membership by contacting men at random—the idea is to use the money paid to the fullest. Think what is that you really want---correspond with many men or find the one you want to cultivate /build a relationship with.
Take the time to read all the profiles that fit your list of “The Ideal Man,” then narrow down a list of a select few—write to these, wait until they answer, try and find out as much as you can about them and then if you still have not found anyone start the process all over again.
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